You have been married to your spouse in Texas for some time now. Recently, you started to wonder if it is time to call it quits, or if you two need marriage counseling to get back on solid ground.
To help you reach a decision, MSN offers a few indications that your marriage has reached its end. Hopefully, you will have a better idea of which move to make concerning your marital future.
The fighting never seems to stop
While even healthy marriages involve arguments, maybe you and your spouse never seem to step off the Conflict Express, no matter how hard you try. If yelling, condescension, blaming and the like are a normal part of your marital communication style, windy seas could be all you two have to look forward to.
The discovery (or confession) of infidelity does not lead to an apology
Sometimes, spouses step out on each other and cheat. If there exists infidelity in your marriage, but not an apology, there could be irreparable damage to the relationship. You could both be better and happier apart.
Neither of you cares
Rather than arguing, it could be that neither you nor your spouse cares enough about the marriage to fight for it and improve it. If no one seems to want to put in the effort to strengthen the marriage and stay in love, it may be time to throw in the towel.
Your attempts at therapy fall flat
Touching back on counseling, perhaps you and your spouse have tried it in the past, but the state of your marriage remains unchanged. If you both feel you have tried all the recommended techniques and exercises, talk to your therapist about whether the marriage has run its course.
This information is only intended to educate and should not be interpreted as legal advice.